100 Kinky Ideas to Try This Weekend

Want some kinky ideas to try this weekend, appropriate to your level? I got you. Oh—and I don’t mean try them ALL this weekend, but I’m also not saying don’t do that!

Light and Playful (Beginner-Friendly)

1. Blindfolded teasing: Restrict sight to heighten other senses.
2. Sensory play: Use ice, feathers, or warm oil on your partner’s skin.
3. Light spanking: Start with gentle swats and gauge reactions.
4. Handcuffs or silk ties: Restrain wrists for a tease.
5. Edging: Bring your partner close to orgasm, then stop, and repeat.
6. Sensual massage: With or without a happy ending.
7. Food play: Use whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or fruit.
8. Mirror sex: Watch yourselves in action.
9. Naked board games: Strip or dare-based versions.
10. Light roleplay: Boss/employee, doctor/patient, etc.

Bondage and Restraint

1. Under-bed restraints: Easy setup for beginners.
2. Spread-eagle tie: Use rope or cuffs to immobilize.
3. Shibari (Japanese rope bondage): Start with a simple chest or wrist harness.
4. Furniture bondage: Tie your partner to a chair or table.
5. Sensory deprivation: Blindfold + headphones for total focus on touch.
6. Vacation handcuffs: Wear cuffs under clothes in public.
7. Bondage tape: Restrain without knots.
8. Hogtie position: For more advanced restraint.
9. Predicament bondage: Make them choose between two uncomfortable positions.
10. Gagged pleasure: Use a ball gag while teasing them.

Dominance and Submission

1. Orgasm control: Make them ask permission to climax.
2. Pleasure denial: Tease but don’t let them finish.
3. Worship play: Have them worship a body part (feet, chest, etc.).
4. Forced begging: Make them plead for what they want.
5. Chastity play: Lock them in a cage (real or symbolic).
6. Body writing: Use markers to claim them.
7. Pet play: Collar, leash, and act like a kitten/puppy.
8. Discipline: Set rules with rewards/punishments.
9. Service submission: Have them serve you (dress you, bathe you, etc.).
10. CNC fantasy (Consensual Non-Consent): Only with deep trust & negotiation.

Impact Play (Spanking and More)

1. Bare-handed spanking: Warm up with your palm.
2. Paddles or hairbrushes: For a sharper sting.
3. Flogging: Start with soft suede or silicone.
4. Caning: Thin, flexible canes leave memorable marks.
5. Crop play: Riding crops deliver a sharp, precise impact.
6. Belt whipping: Folded in half for a thuddy sensation.
7. Wartenberg wheel: A spiky roller for teasing nerves.
8. Violet wand (electroplay): Mild electric sensations.
9. Temperature play: Warm wax or ice cubes on skin.
10. Figging: Inserting ginger for a burning sensation (advanced).

Sensation Play (Beyond Touch)

1. Hot wax dripping: Use low-temp candles.
2. Breath play: Light choking (only with clear consent & safety).
3. Nipple clamps: Start with adjustable pressure.
4. Clothespins (zipper method): Line them up & pull off fast.
5. Vibrating panties in public: Give your partner the remote.
6. Electro-stim toys: Like a TENS unit for controlled shocks.
7. Sensation contrast: Alternate hot/cold (ice & warm mouth).
8. Knife play (cold steel only): Drag a butter knife for psychological thrill.
9. Whip cream + spanking: Sweet & stingy combo.
10. Pinwheel tracing: Roll over sensitive areas.

Roleplay and Fantasy Exploration

1. Stranger hookup: Pretend to meet at a bar.
2. Boss/assistant: Power dynamic fun.
3. Teacher/student: “Detention” has never been so fun.
4. Cop/outlaw: Handcuffs included.
5. Alien abduction: Get creative with “probing.”
6. Vampire & prey: Add fake blood for effect.
7. Celebrity fan fantasy: Pretend to be a famous crush.
8. Repair person fantasy: “Fix my pipes, please.”
9. Kidnapping scene: Consensual abduction play.
10. Free-use day: One partner is available anytime.

Toys and Tech Fun

1. Remote vibrator in public: Controlled via app.
2. Fucking machine: If you have one, try new positions.
3. Strap-on play: Switch roles.
4. Double penetration (toys + partner): Vaginal + anal or dual vibes.
5. Prostate massage: For men or anal-loving women.
6. Vibrating cock ring: Shared pleasure.
7. Nipple suckers: Enhance sensitivity.
8. Dildo suction cup fun: Stick it to a wall or chair.
9. Glass toy temperature play: Warm or cool for new sensations.
10. Pussy pump: Swells for heightened sensitivity.

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

1. Window sex: Risk of being seen (but stay legal!).
2. Balcony quickie: If you have privacy.
3. Car sex: Park somewhere secluded.
4. Outdoor thrill: Forest, beach (check local laws).
5. Changing room quickie: Quiet but risky.
6. Sex in semi-public: At a party (with consent).
7. Send nudes on demand: Throughout the day.
8. Record a sexy video: For your eyes only (or share consensually).
9. Cam show (together or solo): Many sites allow couples.
10. Flash your partner: In a parking lot or at home, unexpectedly.

Taboo and Mind Games

1. Consensual blackmail fantasy: Set limits beforehand.
2. Humiliation play: Degradation (only if both enjoy).
3. Forced feminization/sissification: For those into it.
4. Age play (DDlg, MDlb, etc.): Nurturing or strict dynamics.
5. Objectification: Treat them like furniture/a toy.
6. Financial domination: If both consent (set limits).
7. Bimbofication: Playful or serious, depending on kink.
8. Fear play: Simulated scary scenarios (negotiated).
9. Sleep play: Pretend to be asleep (consensual!).
10. Hypnosis kink: Erotic hypnosis (if both are into it).

Extreme and Edge Play (For Experienced Kinksters)

1. Blood play: Only with sterile tools & knowledge.
2. Fire play: Rope dipping & flash cotton (trained only!).
3. Needle play: Temporary piercing (sterile & safe).
4. Suspension bondage: Requires skill & safety.
5. Knife play (real or fake): Psychological thrill.
6. Branding (temporary or permanent): Heavy commitment.
7. Water sports (golden showers): If both are into it.
8. Scat play: Extreme, requires hygiene prep.
9. Breath control (advanced): Only with safety signals.
10. Consensual non-consent (CNC): Deep trust required.

That should keep you busy!