Elust 197: The Best of The Sexy Blogosphere in May

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Table of Contents

Liz Black X, Best G-Spot Vibrator? SVibe Axi Review for Beginners or Pros: At 8.5 inches, if anything is going to reach your g-spot, this is it. The handy ring grab on the end looks great, too.
Buzzvibes, Vibrator Types Explained: Bullet vs Wand vs Suction (Pros & Cons): I’d say there’s a lot more than 3 types of vibrator, but these are the basics and a good introduction for a beginner.
Sex Toy DB, Cowgirl Unicorn Review: The Ride-On Sex Machine Is Everything I Hoped For: That’s our review, so obviously it’s aa work of towering literary importance. The Cowgirl is a mind-blowing ride no matter what gender you are; the Unicorn edition is just magical.

Her Empire, How to Rebuild Intimacy in Long Term Relationships: Intimacy is often smothered by routine, stress, and tiredness. Rebuilding intimacy starts with attention.
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Subtle Body as Political Territory: Tantra, Bio-Power, and the Liberation of Sensation: how pleasure, power, and sensation itself can become political territory. We review a lot fo gadgets, but this serves as a helpful reminder that no amount of Bluetooth wizardry can replace being present in your own body.
Femina Viva, Spirituality and Sexuality: Two Sides of the Same Coin? Sometimes the best erotic experiences happen when you stop trying to grab them by the throat.

Morgan Destera, Self Perception and Acceptance: Sex toys are wonderful, but feeling wanted in your actual body is always the premium model.

Cassandra Eden, The Mirror of Aphrodite: Confession of a Devotee of Love: frames escorting and erotic connection through beauty, devotion, touch, rather than shame or transaction.
Sex Worker Search, Comparison of Online vs Offline Sex Worker Websites: genuinely useful data-nerd stuff for sex workers and adult businesses: domains, hosting, uptime, CMS choices, Cloudflare, archives, and what makes adult sites vanish into the digital quagmire.
Oz Bigdownunder, Mistress Harriet, Mistress Vanessa Sin, sissy and Oz: gleefully chaotic account of pro-domme play, public exposure, sissy humiliation, strap-ons, oversized dildos, and enough silicone weaponry to make a suitcase collapse.
Hellga, Group Sessions eg Cuckolding, Stag/Vixen and Voyeurism: useful reading if you know you want “more people involved” but haven’t yet worked out whether you want pride, humiliation, sharing, watching, or the full emotional blender.
Sandra, The Brat Bat: A short love letter to a leather paddle!
Milady, Ménage à trois in Paris with Sophie: Latex, champagne, massage, a hotel suite, and a Doxy Wand — this sounds like the set up to a great joke.
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort: A practical guide to choosing the right hotel for an escort booking, covering privacy, room size, lighting, comfort, and not accidentally booking somewhere with the erotic atmosphere of a Travelodge.

Fapspins, How Webcam Sites Really Charge You (Tokens, Tips & Real Costs): A useful breakdown of tokens, tips, private shows, premium interactions, and the many tiny ways webcam sites turn “just a quick look” into wallet purge.
Sugarbutch, Twenty Years of Sugarbutch: A reminder that personal sex writing still matters, because nobody ever changed their life after reading a content farm paragraph called “Top 7 Intimacy Tips.”

History of BDSM, Dominatrixes in video games: The Celluloid Dungeon. From early dungeon enemies to fighting-game archetypes and the glorious nonsense of Bayonetta.