Most of us wouldn’t think twice about spending upwards of $1,000 on a new TV. I don’t even watch that much TV, but I wouldn’t consider that unreasonably expensive, by any means. Yet I shudder at the thought of spending even half that much on a sex toy, which I’d probably get more use out of!

This got me thinking about our priorities when it comes to spending money on pleasure and entertainment. There’s a huge discrepancy in how we perceive and value different types of experiences. Here’s why I think it might be time to reevaluate our spending habits.

The Societal Stigma of Sex Toys

It’s impossible to ignore the societal stigma surrounding sex toys as having the biggest impact on this sort of purchase. While television and other forms of technology are often seen as necessities for our daily lives and entertainment, sex toys are still largely considered taboo. You might show off your new TV to your neighbors, but you’d have to be pretty bold to show off your new fucking machine. This stigma makes it difficult for people to feel comfortable investing in their sexual well-being and pleasure.

The media’s portrayal of sex toys is often limited and sensationalized, perpetuating negative stereotypes. In reality, sex toys can be an incredible resource for individuals and couples, contributing to a healthy and satisfying sex life. But I’m probably preaching to the choir, here.

If you’re struggling to see how anyone might justify a really expensive toy—or even entire room—dedicated to sex, the Netflix series How to Build a Sex Room is superb. It features a range of couples (and groups!) investing in their sex life, and it’s inspirational, with episodes running the gamut of “a quiet place for us to chill without the kids around” to “we want whips, chains, a St Andrew’s Crosses, and a wet room for piss play”.

The Value of Investing in Your Pleasure

Sexual health and pleasure are just as important as any other aspect of our lives, and investing in quality sex toys can be a game-changer. High-quality sex toys are often made from body-safe materials, have longer lifespans, and can offer a mind-blowing experience. Spending a little more on a sex toy can make a significant difference in terms of comfort, pleasure, and sexual exploration. Don’t put up some crap PVC rabbit from Ann Summers; you deserve better!

Whether it’s a quality silicone dildo or a powerful fucking machine, investing in top-notch sex toys can open up a world of sexual exploration and satisfaction. These products are designed to cater to various preferences, desires, and fantasies, allowing individuals and couples to experiment with new sensations and experiences in a safe environment.

By prioritizing our sexual well-being and allocating resources toward pleasure products, we can enhance our intimate lives and cultivate a deeper understanding and appreciation for our bodies and desires. Embracing our sexual selves and prioritizing our pleasure is an essential part of self-care, and it’s high time we give it the same importance and value as other forms of entertainment and self-indulgence.

The Role of Advertising

To better understand why we prioritize certain forms of entertainment over others, we should look to the role of marketing and societal expectations. TV and other tech gadgets are heavily advertised with campaigns showcasing their features and the experiences they provide. This influences our perception of their value and justifies the price tag. You know exactly why that shiny new iPhone is worth $1500—Apple told you in excruciating detail during their last keynote.

On the other hand, sex toys are rarely advertised or discussed in mainstream media. This lack of visibility contributes to the misconception that they are less valuable or less deserving of our financial investment. By redefining what we consider essential or valuable forms of entertainment, we can start to break down these barriers.

You’ve made a great start by being here. If you haven’t already, subscribing to my Pornhub channel, and following me on Twitter would be great next steps!

The Power of Open Conversations

To challenge these stigmas and reshape our spending habits, we need to engage in open conversations about sex toys and sexual pleasure. Discussing sex toys with friends, partners, or even online communities can help normalize their use and encourage others to prioritize their sexual well-being.

Time to Splurge?

It’s time to reevaluate our spending habits when it comes to pleasure and entertainment. By recognizing the importance of our sexual health and well-being, we can invest in products that truly enhance our lives. Breaking down the stigma surrounding sex toys and engaging in open conversations can help us redefine our priorities and create a more balanced approach to pleasure spending.

So, the next time you’re considering a $1,000 TV or a high-quality sex toy, ask yourself: which one will bring me greater satisfaction and contribute more to my overall well-being? The answer might surprise you, and it could be the first step toward a more fulfilling and pleasurable life.