We love being tied up. Restrained. Gagged. Teased and tortured. Edged, or just left to struggle. And we have some favourite gear to do it all with—that you might like, too.
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KBboy Silicone Body Harness
On top of clothing or by itself, a full body harness gives a luscious feeling of tight bondage without actually being restrained. It’s a great way to remind your sub of their place. The Kbboy Full Body Harness is uniquely made of silicone; cool to the touch, shiny, and durable, but for an affordable price of around $230 from Juliet Toys. The equivalent leather gear would cost thousands
Also much appreciated is the customization service: if the standard sizes don’t fit, you can send in your measurements for custom manufacturing for a small extra fee. . Check out my full review of the KBboy silicone harness.
Sensory Deprivation Bondage Hood
A good gag is an essential for any bondage play, but you can take things up a notch with a sensory deprivation hood. Made of thick, padded material with a lush, glossy PVC on the outside, there are multiple straps to lock it down. It eliminates your vision so you have no idea what’s coming next, and it lessens your hearing. The only thing for you to concentrate on is your own breathing and the sensations of whatever the rest of your body is being subjected to.
Of course, the danger level when playing with anything that can restrict your breathing goes up a hundred times. I’ve found a mouth hole is generally easier to breathe through and less claustrophobia-inducing than two small nose holes, and has the benefit that the sub can still be, well… fed things, through the hole.
Adjustable Steel Bondage Frame
There’s so much to love about this adjustable frame, with steel cuffs for your hands, feet, and neck, as well as a waist bar to keep your ass up. And that’s just the default configuration: since it’s all steel bars and connector pieces, there are endless ways to reconfigure it into different play modes. It’s the LEGO set of bondage furniture. You can read my full review over at ToyChats.
My favourite part of this steel bondage frame? Most of the tubes are 25mm diameter, which is the same as the Hismith Premium fucking machine. That means it’s easy to connect up to the Hismith legs for the ultimate enforced fuck machine.
Pink and Black Padded Cuff Set
At less than $30 including shipping, the quality of this full cuff set is outstanding. They’re made of thick, padded PVC, so they’re comfortable for extended use. They’re durable too, able to withstand even the most vigorous of wriggly subs. The neck collar comes with a matching lead, while the wrist and leg cuffs have a small chain with snaphook connectors (though you can easily attach something less easy to escape from).
We use these for nearly every freeform session, and they’ve yet to show any signs of wear after a few years. It’s probably one of the best purchases we ever made—and again… less than $30!
Dominix Deluxe Underbed Restraint System
Being tied spread-eagled to the bed is a favourite, but most underbed restraint systems just aren’t up to the task—they’re more toy props than actual restraints. The Dominix Deluxe features leather cuffs and two tie points for each. Read my full review of this fantastic beginner set at ToyChats.